If, when, and how to retire : twice the husband, half the income -- Let's talk about money: finances without fighting -- Changing roles and identities : I don't do windows -- Time together, time apart : I love you and i need my space -- Intimacy and romance : love birds -- Relationships with family : the theory of relativity -- Health and wellness : will medicare pay for the spa? -- Choosing where and how to live : staying put or exploring new frontiers? -- Social life, friends, and community : I signed us up for hip-hop -- Purpose, meaning, and giving back : what's it all about?